Because everyone loves a little instant gratification!

Start lifting weights

Lifting weights and building muscle was the single best thing I did for my inner game, ever.

When you lift weights you are making your body healthier and sexier, which are both demonstrations of higher value. You feel good about yourself because you are bettering yourself. Your body actually releases hormones which change your mood. You walk with your chin high and your chest out. Your self esteem skyrockets.faceit boost

Buy some new clothes

Looking sharp feels good. How you feel effects your body language. When you wear a good outfit not only do you put your best foot forward aesthetically, but your body language falls into suit as well.

Get a different, stylish haircut

Change is good. It is easier to change your internal beliefs if there is also a change to your external appearance - your body is expecting change and allows you to take on a new self, you provide an external stimulus to give your internals permission to change.

Not to mention that changing your style a bit (or a lot! ) can be very healthy.

Note: Your fashion should be congruent with your identity. Here's my experience with modifying identity and fashion: I found what I was passionate about and made that my identity. In my case, it was not was I studied in school or did for a living, it was instead a hobby that really makes me tick. Then i changed my fashion to come into more alignment with that identity. When i did that i started getting approach invitations like crazy.