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Lahu clan love

The Lahu people practiced monogamy, which was forbidden to intermarry with foreigners in the old days, imitation hermes bags sale and the restrictions have been gradually relaxed in modern times. In some areas, unmarried young men and women are permitted to enjoy full freedom of social love between their uncle's and aunt's cousins. Generally around the age of 16 to participate in 'string girl' activities. There faux gold and enamel jewelry are two ways to string girl. One is the young man alone to the favorite girl in front of their house playing Lusheng, if the girl was Lushengqu moving, that is, the sound out, singing songs with the young man, borrowing romance. Another is the collective 'string girl' activities, that a young man invited a village wallet another girl collective song, the mutual consent of the individual activities can be, the young man looking for robbed the girl's headdress, Ao Bao and other things, or Girl grab a young man's hat, Saber, if the other party does not want to retrieve the robbed thing, but can not blame the prey. If the person being robbed does not object to the objection, indicating that he is willing to contact with him or he will meet again in the future, both parties will, on the grounds of mutual apology, further contact with each other and give each other gifts as affectionate token. The girl usually sends the young man his own hand-embroidered purse, belt, bag and other things, the young man gave the girl a ring, silver earrings, silver bracelets and other objects. The collective 'string girl' is a popular way of using Lahu youth. They think that anything should be open and fair, and love and affection are no exception. Chasing each other during the day and stealing someone else's things, all things under the sun and the sun can testify, meet with lovers at night, to light a bonfire, the moon, stars and campfire as evidence, innocent feelings can not be hidden. In some places, young people also deliberately invited some 'invited representatives' to participate in the 'representative' by the people trustworthy, good quality, eloquent young men and women as they were invited to the lovers' dating office, while lovers Glutinous rice donated faux fashion jewelry bracelets by them, while acting as a witness. The 'representative' has the right to talk about the progress of love, but does not have the right to interfere in the success or failure of love. After the young men and women privately determine their feelings, they must explain each other's character and degree of love to both parents. After the engagement ceremony to be held. Engagement ceremony can be held in the men, but also in the engagement of the woman's house, young men and women to each other's home work, so that both parents examine their character imitation hermes outlet online and production skills, if found to be lazy, style is not correct, etc. can be made to each other Dismissal of Lancang Lancang area more than men held a wedding in the men; Gengma, Shuangjiang area Lahu and more in the women's wedding. By then, friends and relatives and Zhai neighborhood will be invited to have dinner and go to the homes of men and women to worship ancestors, gods, and worshiped the traditional customs of the Lahu people, both relatives of both parents, living in the same house. After the wedding, the groom to bring production tools to the woman home, time is generally 3 years. During the visit, the man can go home to take care of their parents as usual. After the expiration of 3 years, both husband and wife bring their children back to settle their male counterparts or separate new houses to separate. After the liberation door-to-door period has been shortened, but at least have to come home for 3 days, and then back to the male Lahu tribal phenomenon rare. If the couple's feelings and discord, persuasion invalid, divorce. Traditionally, divorcee first proposed to pay each other some money. Men make more divorces than women make. Divorce ceremony presided over by the village head, the couple with a pair of wax strip (or red line), the first man cut with a pair of scissors that is to lift the marriage. Children and children are dependent on both sides, and are generally returned to their sons and women returned to their motherhood After 1949, the Lahu people generally practiced a socialist marriages system of equality between men and women and freedom of marriage.

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